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In December 2010 we lost our precious 9 yr old Daughter Laura Emily McPhee from a severe Asthma attack. However once we stepped outside the hospital doors it was as if we had entered the 'Bermuda Triangle'. There does not appear to be a system that supports bereaved/grieving families.
Communication between services was non-existent, and care which should have been delivered was not. We want the government to ensure there is a coordinated package of aftercare bereavement counselling for all families following the loss of a baby/child. Please go to our website for full statement. www.lauramcpheememorial.webs.com (uk) Im still begging for counselling 2 ½ yrs down the line and I am suicidal! I have had 9 assessments told im severe but absolute NO help what so ever! Plz Listen! Plz get me and others someone before its too late!..........................
In December 2010 we lost Our Beautiful 9 yr. old Daughter Laura Emily McPhee to a severe Asthma Attack, the snow was too deep and the ambulance took 40 minutes to get to us! When it did finally arrive it took Laura to hospital we followed in beach safety me (mum) and brother Lewis tried desperately to resuscitate her but sadly Laura passed away. Our lives totally destroyed from then. The ambulance should have taken between 8-11 it was an emergency! We finally arrived home and everything was taken by the police, after a few weeks Laura came home for the final time and we could finally send our beautiful daughter to heaven with a beautiful princess funeral with horse and carriage just 3 days before Christmas. Since the day we lost Laura we have had NO help what so ever, I have had 9 different assessments by different bereavement groups to be told I am a severe case and close to suicide but yet I am still begging to get counselling. 2 1/2 yrs. down the line and I am still begging, since we stepped outside the hospital doors it was as if we had entered the 'Bermuda Triangle'. it’s like Laura passed yesterday but worse, im getting worse but they said there is no one available and if I had a still born I might of been seen sooner. I am totally tortured by that day and want to join her daily but I have to be strong for my husband and son and the charity we opened in her name, we have raised over £55,000 for asthmatic babies/children, bought vital breathing units, saved lives and helped hundreds more, without Laura’s charity I would of joined her a long time ago. Her charity keeps me going knowing we are helping another parent NOT go through the torture of losing a precious child. Our charity is a uk children's charity and all money we raise is spent on buying breathing units for our local hospital (Grimsby) and community. We would like our charity to go round the uk and further helping asthmatic children (Google our charity) www.lauramcpheememorial.webs.com I think of Laura every second of every day when I am alone I cry, scream and so desperately want to be with her but I am slipping, im getting closer to her, I want to be with her daily, I still am NOT getting any help, from day 1 to now everyone said they would help then I get let down again by all the professionals. There does not appear to be a system that supports bereaved/grieving families.
Communication between services is existent, and care which should have been delivered was not.
We want the government to ensure there is a coordinated package of aftercare for all families following the loss of a baby/child. And straight after bereavement not like me waiting years later and still waiting. Please I beg you help me and help others like our family. I have had enough of begging for help why is no one helping or listening? This needs sorting ASAP Please LISTEN!